Would we know that there's an end to a rainbow til' you find it?Would we know that there's something called instinct til' we know about it?Would we know what is friendship til' we got let down?Would we know what is right til' we do the wrong things?Would we know what is a lie til' we did it?Would we know what is care til' we disappoint someone?Would we know what is hope til' we failed?Would we know what is security til' we are in danger?Would we know what is happiness til' we tasted bitterness? Would we know what is love til' we got hurt? So how would you know if what is going on is right or wrong? Everything happens for a reason. And since it happened. It isn't anyone's fault. It just happened. Instead of trying to push the blame over past events. Instead of feeling so terrible over what has happened. Instead of quarreling and having even more strained feelings. Why can't we just talk it out? Why can't we just get along? Why can't we just deal with it? It's exhausting to everyone. Everyone is tired. So instead of letting this go on. Why not let's just solve it? So whoever read this, please always remember, quarrels don't make things better, it doesn't steer the responsibilities, neither does it help solve problems. It just tires everyone even faster, strains the relationship, and NEVER make things better. And, whatever that has happened, it has happened already. Racking up the past isn't helping, so since it has happened, just deal with that fact that it has happened. Friends talk things out, not blame, not quarrel, and not point fingers. I hope you all understand what i am getting at. I don't really know what happened. But all i know is, it's no one's fault. So please. I don't want to see our friendship strained and broken. So i hope...all of you will understand...what my intentions are. If you feel that i am talking crap, you can choose to ignore me, i will respect your decisions. "Holding on to the faith, that we can pull through this tough phase....please give me strength...."
quoted all from tam's blog. yeah. all we can do now is deal with it. sigh. there's really certain things tat others didnt know. i really dunno wad more to say.
i'm tired. after knowing all this. my tears flows. i cried like a baby who lose her fav softtoy. felt so hopeless suddenly. thanks for you guys being ard for me. i'm tired and guess all i need is just pure understanding. thanks to those who gave me that i sincerely thank you from the bottom of my heart. but the bubbly me will be back in action soon. just need a break. a breather for the time being.
